Change Your Life and Take 100% Responsibility

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by aubrey on September 2, 2010

Hey ladies, So here’s a repost of an article I put up when I first started ALP.
 
This subject is near and dear to my heart and I  figured that it’s about time that I let you guys and gals in on how I think. I want you to know, how I believe most people should feel inside. 
 
First off, I am a heavy advocate for people living their lives to the fullest and utilizing their minds to create whatever they want.  I truly believe that, not one person is beneath another.  All of us are special in our own way. 
 
I love make-up, hairstyling, shopping, and fashion.  However my true passion in life is helping others realize that the world is better place with them in it.
 
Though it may sound a bit corny, it’s something that I strongly believe in and always will. It’s vital for us to adopt this mentality because it will take you heights of success that most only dream of.
 
Throughout  this post I will pepper some really cool videos with some people that motivate me. I hope that you will take the time to watch them and soak in the message they are sending.

 

I used to be a manager working endless hours with acquaintances and spending less time with my husband and son. Fortunately, because I took the correct actions at the right time, I was able to quit my day job and be a stay at home mom that works from home.  I’ve started my own Floral Events business, which has taken off quite nicley. 
 
As you know, I’ve been able to create a decent Modeling portfolio and manifest wonderful contacts in the industry. I’ve already started my youtube channel and a very successful blog. 
 
I’ve also launched my very own Web Design Company which already has many clients signed on. I’ve garnered attenion from some of the biggest Pin Up Clothing companies.  My viewership is moving along wonderfully on youtube, which I recently gotten YOUTUBE PARTNERSHIP.
 
I am expecting big things in this upcoming year. One of my goals this year is to propel my channel on the frontpage of the “How-To Gurus” page.
 
 I want to represent the PINUP CULTURE to it’s fullest.  I think it’s important for alot of people out there to see the true beauty that our world has to offer and hopefully inspire others to dive right into the lifestyle.
To think, all of this started from the fact that I decided to take 100% responsiblity for my life.

What do I mean by that?  It means to stop the blaming and complaining.  I realize that I am fully responsible for everything and all events that happen to me.  I control what happens to me. I control how I react to events and situations.  My thoughts create my future. I admit that I had a bit more of a pessimistic frame of mind in the past and all it did was lead me to a dead end everytime.  Once I stopped blaming anyone and everyone other than myself, is when everything started to change.  I no longer stress out so bad. I don’t hold grudges anymore.  The petty arguments and pointless debates have virtually disappeared. Not only do I feel better emotionally inside, but my body feels better. I feel alive & healthier. I sleep better, which in turn causes me to wake up relaxed and exhilirated. Not everyday is perfect for me but I will say that my life is great.  If you took 100% responsiblity for your life, how many mountains could you move?


        Join me weekly, as I will be reflecting my thoughts on life, love, laughter, and why I think it’s important for all of us to realize that whatever we put our mind to, we can can create.  If this post hit close to home and affected you in some way, I encourage to to share.  Please join me on my youtube channel as I will be expressing my opinion on this subject. Please watch my video here. Take care XOXO

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The Art of Burlesque

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by aubrey on August 31, 2010

Being fans of the Pin Up genre, we’ve all ran into the term Burlesque before.

For most mainstream fans, association of Burlesque with the gorgeous and fabulous Dita Von Teese. Afterall, she has become so popular with it and bringing it to current pop culture.

Heavy  influences of Burlesque making it’s way onto artists we see today from the Pussycat Dolls to Christina Aguilera. It’s a truly beautiful look that most people cannot look away from. It’s captivating and an incredible art form.

We are familiar with it’s corsets, feathers, top hats, high heels, garters and sparkles. I love the style and the sexiness of the show, the swinging tassels, sexy striptease, but where did it all start?

Burlesque wasn’t at all what is is today, when it first started. In the early 1600’s the term was used to describe a sort of Vaudvillian type of a show.

Mini acts that were parodies of popular operas and plays. It was geared towards middle class people.

There was a lot of humor, a lot of music and a lot of acting. The risque part of the show was the fact that women dressed up and played men.

This form was most popular in Europe and by the 19th century had become mainstream at clubs like the Olympic and the Gaiety.

Well known Burlesque stars of this time began being seen in music halls. Burlesque in this form can still be seen all over Britain, known as ‘Classical Burlesque’

Today’s sultry, sexy, striptease burlesque came to be after becoming popular in a club called Moulin Rouge. This was a club opened by Joseph Oller, who also owned the Olympic that I mentioned earlier. 

Courtesans (today this term would be used to describe an escort) would entertain the clients who were mostly wealthy men, with their can-can dances.

While they were dancing, they would show their skin. Basically by lifting and unwrapping various pieces of clothing. Lifting their skirts to show their legs and sometimes more.

During this time the Moulin Rouge was known as a ‘High Class Brothel’ but after some time lost that reputation and became a popular destination for tourists to see the performers tease and delight them with their seductive dances.

Burlesque as we know it today originated from this, and involves the art of teasing. While the audience is eager to see more nudity it is the job of the performer to delay that.

Ways of doing that include wearing layers of clothing. Taking off a skirt and having delicate undergarments on.

Waving feathers in front of the part that was just exposed so that the clients still cannot see. It is more the art of undressing and not the art of being undressed. Often, the act would end just as the performer became all the way undressed.

In today’s society, the term Burlesque Review has been applied to a low quality striptease venue. Very tacky and lacking in skill.

I am very much appreciative of the acts of Dita Von Teese, who continues to show how beautiful Burlesque can be. Classy and very elegant if done correctly.

Bright, beautifully colored feathers, lace and expensive fabrics embellish the costumes worn and help accentuate the curves of the female form. I love acts like this and hope to see more and more of them that helps bring back this style of burlesque that came to be from Moulin Rouge. I think it emphasizes the beauty of a woman’s body and the power that women have to seduce an entire room.

This of course, is just a brief introduction into the world and history of Burlesque. There are many more Burlesque performers that I plan on showcasing to all of you.

I want to cover more of the underground trends right now in burlesque fashion and performances. I also want to get some great interviews with some of these fantastic ladies. For now, hopefully this small post will suffice.

Thanks again for visiting me here on ALP. I love you all dearly and can’t thank you enough for your support. Please follow your dreams everyday and make sure that you make a difference in the world!!! Take Care - XOXO 

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Introducing……Go Go Mania

August 29, 2010
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It’s not very often that you get to see a person with so many talents. Some of us are good at only a few things. Few of us are great at alot of things we do. Well, this guy by the name of Pascal Bannink has a multitude of talents that caught my eye.
I thought, [...]

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The Glorious 1950′S Housewife

August 26, 2010
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What was one things that became so synonymous with the the 1950’s? Yes, you got it right. It was the wholesome and graceful housewife.
These ladies were so adorable, and it always looked like they were already to go out somewhere. However, it was just the opposite as they were all dolled up for their [...]

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Lolita Girl Clothing

August 24, 2010
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From the moment you log onto Lolita Girl Clothings site you know you are headed for a different shopping experience. The cute, fun and girly layout of the site mirrors the style of their clothing.
Sweet, cute, and retro designs fill the pages of their online store and are beautifully styled. Lolita girl offers retro [...]

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Achieving a Mad Men Glam Look

August 21, 2010
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There are alot of you that may know of the very popular show, Mad Men. If not , then you are probably hiding under a rock. It is an awesome show that focuses on the era from the 1960’s. It has goreous men dressed up in their suits and even hotter women. Especially, the fabulous [...]

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FABULOUS!!!! – Yellow Bubbles Photography

August 17, 2010
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As you all know by now, I have worked with a few photographers now.
I love all of the different styles, and its amazing to see each photographers unique personality shine through in their work.
One in particular stands out for me thus far. I personally believe this photographer is on her way to a [...]

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Pretty Bird Originals

August 15, 2010
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In a genre saturated with so many accessory companies, I feel that my job is never done when it comes to finding the best of them.
Pretty Bird Originals is yet another accessory company who impressed me with their simple, sweet, retro styles. When I found them I thought, “these are the accessories that the young, [...]

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Get Go Retro – Clothing Shop

August 13, 2010
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Get Go Retro is a shop that is based out of the east coast. Cathy, the owner wanted to create a place that catered to women, by helping them find clothing that flatters the figure. Inspired by silver screen beauties, the selection is large.
Anything from wedding dresses, to everyday wear to cocktail dresses, this [...]

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Astrud Gilberto…The Boss-Nova Queen

August 11, 2010
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If  you don’t her by now, you are either too young to know or you just haven’t been exposed to this amazing singer from Brazil, by the name of Astrud Gilberto.
I absolutley love her and admire all of her music. I decided to showcase some of her incredible work.
You’ll discover the relevance of her music in that [...]

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